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LAZY FAITH
The opposite of love is not hate. It is seeing evil and doing nothing. This article explores faith, love, education, how we are in the world, and how we can care for our soul and others' souls.
“You cannot step into the same river twice”
As a 13-year-old boy, it took a while to save up to buy the $59.97 canoe kit advertised in Boys Life. I sold Petoskey stones under the name Petoskey Pete, babysat, and scraped together birthday money to get the $59.97. I rounded up to $60.00 as I worried the coins would rip the envelope. I didn’t tell my siblings, friends, or parents because I thought they would try to talk me out of it.
PUT LOVE IN MOTION
Paul Sutherland recounts finding a dead child on a South African road, surrounded by public indifference. A lone woman's act of stopping gives him hope amidst his anger. Sutherland emphasizes that empathy and good intentions are valueless without action, echoing Einstein's "nothing happens until something moves." He concludes that "Love only wins if love is put in motion".
STUCK ON YOUR PATH?
ONE OF THE GREAT GIFTS OF WRITING a column is receiving responses from readers that move me or even push me to think harder or feel more deeply—especially notes like one that arrived after my May/June column on getting stuck was published. The reader wrote to me about becoming stuck in grief.
SHARE THE TABLE
Life isn’t about hogging the last bread roll—it’s about sharing the table. We don’t need to wait until Thanksgiving or Christmas to invite someone to share our table. Who will sit at your table? Who will you invite over?
OLD PEOPLE EXIST TO SAVE THE WORLD
IF EVOLUTION WERE ALL ABOUT PROCREATION, men would die at 30 and women would die around 45. We would mature, have sex, raise children, and die. So, why do we live so long? Because old people are needed to contribute as community members, wisdom keepers, storytellers, and backup parents. We do not stick around to retire. Our evolutionary mandate is not to grow into a life of leisure or a second adolescence. The world did not—and does not— need that, and that simple fact was once obvious to everyone. We old folks are here to be busy spiritual action heroes for our communities, families, children, and society—proudly working more than we did when we had our careers. Our job is to save the world.
HOW WE CHOOSE TO BE IN THE WORLD
A FEW WEEKS AGO, I was in Boulder, Colorado, at the studios of gaia.com, creating a meditation series tentatively called Care of the Soul. I sat on my knees and gave dharma talks about grief, anxiety, forgiveness, right practice, and compassion. Then I guided the audience through a Vipassana/loving-friendliness meditation. I spent a lot of time sitting that day, and the mind chatter that kept taking me from paying attention to my breath during meditation was about responsibility: specifically, what should I do about the injustice, hate, bigotry, exploitation, and other poisons so prevalent today?
A Path Forward
IF YOU REMEMBER ONE THING from this column, remember this: Being out of harmony with your soul or with the demands of your spiritual nature is like having a rock in your shoe. It is going to bug you until you fix the situation.
Moments That Change The World
THIS PAST SUNDAY I CRASHED MY BIKE so hard I flew over the handlebars, landed on my head and back, and broke my helmet. Thankfully, my 16-year-old son Patrick was there to make sure I did not try to move my neck or body or let anyone else move me. It felt good that his words were so solid, helpful, and calm with so many people wanting to do something before the ambulance guys took over—and then a CT scan showed nothing broken.
Building Rainbow Nations
SEVEN YEARS AGO, I took my sons Henry and Patrick to South Africa to check out some new charitable project requests for the Utopia Foundation and to review some projects we were already supporting. Utopia’s mission is to create a world where every person goes to bed feeling safe, fed, happy, and optimistic about tomorrow.